At this 2016 Seven Sisters Festival in Australia, I gave a presentation called, ‘The Sexually Sovereign Woman.’ Could I have picked a more complex subject than female sexual sovereignty?! I did however share it in a simplified way, highlighting a few things that are important to know… It’s impossible to speak of our personal autonomy or claiming our full sexual sovereignty as women, without also looking at the domestication of our wildness. Much of those facts have been forgotten and some of them are rather confronting. I began this live presentation saying that hearing some of it could feel disturbing. And […] Read more »

I encourage women from the Tigress community to share their stories from exploring their own erotic lives. Here’s an anonymous sharing for you here: “I will always remember the first time. There was two sides to the coin. I met it with such excitement and anticipation. There was also a deep calm inside that indicated to me how right it felt. How much I wanted IT. How much I was aching to fully let go and receive. Sunshine beaming down. I’d slightly open my eyes and be met with gum tree leaves and a blanket of blue from the clear […] Read more »

  From the start of my teenage and young adult and years, I did not understand the dishonesty of how most humans do relationship. Before I ever heard the word polyamory for the first time, it was already my reality. Questioning the norm felt vital to me, as I didn’t see many examples of relationships that were inspiring to me. I remember when I first met a community with teachings around various relating styles – the secret fear of “maybe I’m just a bit crazy” dissolved, when I realised I was not alone. Having lived radical relating and been surrounded […] Read more »

Desire. Why is it important? (aside from the obvious) What we desire as women, and where we desire from defines the circumstances of our lives. How we feel about ourselves and our lives has a very strong connection with our desire. What we say yes to is a statement of what we are willing to accept, of what we want and desire for ourselves. It’s a statement to others of who we are and an indication of who we think we are. It is said that the female psyche is externally motivated. It means the need for external validation is a […] Read more »

image from Huffington Post Firstly, what does Secure Attachment mean? And why create it when attachment has been given such a bad rap in spiritual theory? In adult relationships, secure attachment refers to healthy bonding and is considered the ideal for successful intimate relating. However, interpretation of eastern philosophy tell us that attachment is not spiritual and we need to let it go to be evolved. Once again, the linearity of western thought with emphasis on masculine transcendence has dominated us with a patriarchal spirituality. It’s disconnected us from authentic feelings, from our bodies, from the Earth, from the Feminine and […] Read more »