When I made the first video, I made it for those of you who are in this community, and for women you know. Those of you who have met me, understand that I’m not anti-men. I am however interested in self empowerment for women and more awareness from men in this context. If I had of realised how much my video would be viewed beyond my women’s community, I probably would have made sure I wasn’t having such a bad hair day 🙂
I intentionally made the first video short with one clear message. I was saying that yes, these dynamics do happen and yes, there is a place beyond feeling so angry and traumatised about it. This video here is longer than usual, because I have taken the time be a little more thorough in explaining where I’m coming from. I used to feel angry, upset and confused about these things, but I’ve had so much exposure to it now, that I I’ve found a new place with it all. I wanted to share about that place to women in these circles, who may be feeling stuck or a bit lost.
I choose to focus on what is productive and directly useful to women who have been asking for more information from me on this matter. In fact some women wrote to me saying they are upset that more female teachers are not saying much about these dynamics. I understand the student’s pain because often they are processing so much self doubt, confusion, sometimes trauma, and feel quite alone in it. I understand why so few teachers are bringing these things to the light, because they can get attacked by people who make assumptions and then try to cut them down for standing up and saying something. And some thought I was exaggerating which indicates they have no idea just how common these dynamics really are for women in the tantric scene.
One of the greatest things about being a turned on woman who is in touch with her desire, is that my instincts are ON and it’s now very unlikely for me to be manipulated.
To be honest, this issue is not an interesting conversation to me anymore. I would so much prefer to be putting my focus and energy into creating more beauty in this world & sharing more with you about what’s coming in Tigress Yoga. So for those who contacted me, hopefully this video answers questions you’ve had.
These men are all playing their part, and so am I. I’m pleased to finally be at peace with how I feel in relation to these teachers, and I no longer doubt my feminine wisdom.
Amplifying the duality of this situation is not my intention. Self empowerment for women is.
(Please excuse the glitchy editing due to building sounds in the background, seems it happens a lot here in Thailand. In fact, it’s kinda appropriate because nobody’s perfect :-))
* Sex with a teacher is not actually required to “unblock” a woman’s energy. Sound healing, tantric bodywork, yoni massage, tigress yoga + more is highly effective to shift energy and maintain clear boundaries with female students, if done with respect and care. I am referring to situations where students are told they must for their spiritual path. *
If you know of a woman who could benefit from the messages in this video, please forward this blog onto her & if you appreciate this message, feel free to comment below.
(She who has healthy boundaries; who can say no with love and give mercy/ compassion)